Monday, January 24, 2011

Making Cemeteries Relevant, Part 5: Lees + Associates



The Daily Undertaker is a fascinating e-newsletter with sections that include: Natural and Sustainable Options, Art and Death, Inspiring Services, Memorialization Ideas, Grieving and links to further newsletters, journals, sites, related to death, cemetaries, funerals, rituals etc.

In the newsletter Pat McNally writes a series titled :"Making Cemeteries Relevant". Pat articulates his view of art and ritual on his blog: "There is perhaps nothing more important than art and ritual, because they help us to make sense of our world. When we experience a good work of art, or engage in a meaningful ritual, we see the world, and our place in it, in a different and richer way." (http://www.blogger.com/profile/16264369363269384639 )

For Part 5 of the series he interviewed Erik Lees, from Lees and Associates. Pat starts the interview with Erik:
"Your work is different. In the nature of the projects your firm has been involved in, and the responsiveness of your designs to the stories behind the grounds, and the people who will visit there, I find something very compelling. "

Their work is compelling!

Pat's interview with Erik includes a discussion of key sites that Lees and Associates designed, tells a piece of the story of those whose lives are being honoured at the site, and provides a photo of each site.
To read the interview and to see the photos go to:
http://www.dailyundertaker.com/2011/01/making-cemeteries-relevant-part-5-lees.html

Erik discusses the "Woodlands" site. Woodlands in BC, housed many people who were developmentally and mentally challenged for many years.


Erik says, "There were so many challenges with this project, but great projects are rarely simple!
The headstones from this 2 acre cemetery had been removed over 40 years ago, some of which were just dumped in a ravine, some were used for patio stones and a retaining wall – as sacrilegious as this may seem. Our task was to repatriate those stones to the cemetery site, but in the absence of accurate records, we were not able to definitively say where each headstone belonged, hence our decision to incorporate them in to a series of walls. The other challenge was that we only found 900 of the 3200 headstones, so we had to devise a system to acknowledge and remember all those that were buried there, not just those whose names were on the headstones we found. As with all our projects we undertook thorough research and during that process found inspiration in the history of the institution and even more so: the stories of those who lived there. One of


the most compelling stories was how many of the children were housed in dormitories with windows too high to see out of. We decided to create a “window too high” and although it is far more literal than we might otherwise choose, it proved to be a very powerful icon in the garden and one around which visitors had their picture taken."


As this site was being built, I cared for the mother of a woman who had lived at Woodlands. I told her that a memorial was being created. She told me about the building, and about the windows which were too high.

This work also intrigues me as Erik Lees happens to be my very talented older brother!
Way to go Lees and Associates! http://www.elac.bc.ca/

Kath

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Noah's Comfort Basket

I have been sick with the flu for the past few days and luckily for me, our five year old grandson Noah decided to be my personal caregiver!

Noah brought me water, a cold cloth, bowl of sliced pears, basket with drawing paper, book, warm winter hat, paintings, and hot pads. He rearranged my blankets, washed my arm, checked in regularly, and blew me a few kisses. In a very loud voice he instructed his little brother to speak to me nicely.

Over the years I have taught about the "Comfort Basket" or the "Basket of Comfort Measures" to nurses, health care workers, family caregivers, and kids in the school communities. I have always enjoyed the concept, but I sure enjoyed being a recipient.

I was impressed by the intuitive wisdom of this kind and loving child. I think I have a new teaching partner!

Kath

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Jennifer Wortham and Wendy Kurchak.... are Certified Thanatologists!

Hello WORLD!

Announcing that Wendy (former student with LDMonline) and Jennifer (LDMonline facilitator) are now CERTIFIED THANATOLOGISTS! They passed the exam that they wrote with the Association for Death Education and Counseling! Wendy says she is going to frame hers and put it in the front entrance way to her home, along with a brief (10,000 words or less) explanation of what Thanatology IS! Jennifer is dancing up and down the streets in New York City, and has not been reachable since getting the big news!

Congratulations Jen and Wendy!

For those who do not know, the Association for Death Education and Counseling® (ADEC) is "an international, professional organization dedicated to promoting excellence and recognizing diversity in death education, care of the dying, grief counseling and research in thanatology. Based on quality research, theory and practice, the association provides information, support and resources to its international, multicultural, multidisciplinary membership and to the public." ( retrieved January 4,2011, from http;//www.adec.org/Mission_Statement/2022.htm )

Monday, January 3, 2011

HPNA and AAHPM Conference - Feb 16-19, 2011 in VANCOUVER!

I am delighted to announce that the Hospice and Palliative Nurses Association (HPNA) and the American Academy of Hospice and Palliative Medicine (AAHPM) are having their annual assembly/conference in Vancouver BC!!! My home town! (I grew up at the base of the mountains in their brochure!))

BCHPCA and the Canadian Society of Palliative Care Physicians (CSPCP) are supporting partners of this conference. Members of these supporting organizations will receive the same discount as members of the AAHPM and HPNA.

The brochure outlines an exciting conference with a strong clinical focus, and many great speakers and sessions.

To download the brochure go to:

http://digital.ipcprintservices.com/publication/?i=46109

Meanwhile, the BC Hospice Palliative Care Association is planning their annual conference for May, 2011, also in Vancouver. This conference will focus on the needs of volunteers, hospice directors, board members etc.. More information to follow!

Kath